Robert Paul Rader: Remembering a Life of Service and Love

Robert Paul Rader, a cherished member of the Santa Cruz community, passed away in 2025 at the age of 90. Born in 1935 in Chicago, Illinois, he was the eldest of three children in the Rader family. His life was shaped by both personal challenges and a deep commitment to his family and community.

Rader’s early years in Cicero were marked by a vibrant community, enriched by parks and recreational facilities built during the era of Al Capone. In 1947, the family relocated to California, where Bob attended Branciforte school until the 9th grade before graduating from Santa Cruz High in 1953. His academic journey continued at San Jose City College and San Jose State, although he had to enter the workforce midway through his senior year due to financial demands.

In 1961, Rader became a partner with his father in Rader’s Jewelry and Loan, which would become a staple in Santa Cruz for 37 years. This pawn shop was notable for being the only one in the area during that time. Rader’s extensive knowledge of musical instruments, jewelry, and collectibles made him a valued resource in the community. His expertise also made him a sought-after figure during rummage sales, particularly after his wife, Nancy Gould, joined the Omega Nu organization.

During his life, Bob experienced personal challenges, including a family history of Alzheimer’s disease. His mother, as well as both grandmothers, suffered from the illness, and sadly, both his siblings also succumbed to it. When asked about his own diagnosis, Rader responded with a poignant acceptance: “Yes, but what can I do about it?”

Family Life and Community Involvement

Bob’s first marriage to Rilma produced a daughter, Rachelle Hall, who later moved to Australia with her husband, Dan, and their son, Chaytan. In August 1971, Bob married Nancy, with whom he raised two children, Robyn Bariteau and Scott Rader. Bob was a proud grandfather to seven grandchildren, all of whom he cherished and supported at their sporting events. He often reflected on the importance of being present for his grandchildren, especially since he missed many of his own children’s games due to work commitments.

Outside of his family life, Rader was an active community member. He was a life member of the Santa Cruz Elks Club, where he helped organize Bingo nights and summer barbecues. His leadership extended to serving as a District Governor for the California Jaycees and being a member of the Santa Cruz Lions Club. Bob also attended Twin Lakes Church for many years and was involved with the SIRs until his Alzheimer’s diagnosis limited his participation.

Travel was a significant aspect of Bob and Nancy’s life together. They embarked on numerous trips worldwide, with cruising emerging as their favorite pastime. Bob also enjoyed skiing in his early married years and had a passion for tennis and music.

Legacy and Final Years

In his later years, Rader spent time at Westwind Memory Care in Santa Cruz, where he received compassionate care. He was particularly fond of daytime television, with shows like Judge Judy becoming favorite pastimes. Bob’s patience and nurturing nature made him an exceptional babysitter for his grandchildren.

Rader made the decision to donate his brain to Alzheimer’s research, contributing to the ongoing fight against the disease that affected his family. He also participated in a blood study focused on Alzheimer’s.

In honoring his memory, the family encourages contributions to the Scholarship Fund of Sigma Alpha Omega Nu of Santa Cruz or the Alzheimer’s Association. Donations can be sent to PO BOX 1696, Santa Cruz, CA 95061.

Robert Paul Rader’s life was a testament to resilience, love, and community service. His legacy will continue to inspire those who knew him and the many lives he touched throughout his journey.