Remembering Judy Parsons: A Life of Joy and Community Service

Judith Lynn Parsons, known affectionately as Judy, passed away peacefully at her home in Soquel, California, on January 7, 2025, surrounded by her family. Her passing came after a joyful visit with her children, grandchildren, and great-granddaughter, a testament to her deep family connections.

Born in 1932 in Stockton, California, Judy was the daughter of Dorothy Graebe-Zent and Claude Zent. Tragically, she lost her mother to tuberculosis when she was just seven years old and was subsequently raised by her grandparents, Hermann and Hermina Graebe. Despite the early challenges in her life, Judy blossomed into an independent and spirited woman, known for her beauty and keen intellect.

Judy graduated from Stockton College High School before continuing her education at San Jose State University, where she became a cherished member of the Chi Omega sorority. It was at Cowell’s Beach that she met her husband, Paul Parsons. The couple married in 1954 and initially settled in Rio Del Mar before moving to Soquel to enjoy more sunshine and raise their three children in a loving home on Fairway Drive.

Throughout her career, Judy made significant contributions to her community. She worked with the Girl Scouts and in Parks and Recreation, but her most notable professional achievement came from owning and operating the Parsons Insurance Agency in Capitola. There, she supported numerous friends and clients with their insurance needs.

Judy and Paul were deeply involved in the Soquel community, contributing to local initiatives such as the Sportscar Club, First Night celebrations, and the movement to save Soquel. They played a vital role in the development of Anna Jean Cummins Park, also known as Blue Ball Park. Judy also served as president of the Soquel Pioneers, a testament to her leadership and commitment to community service.

Her love for baseball was a defining aspect of her life. Judy and Paul were dedicated fans of the Oakland Athletics, holding season tickets and rarely missing a game. Their enthusiasm for the sport was mirrored in their active involvement in their children’s and grandchildren’s activities, where they earned the reputation of being the BEST grandparents.

Judy cherished summers spent at the family cabin at Woods Lake, where she and Paul welcomed many friends and enjoyed trips to nearby casinos in Nevada. Her progressive political views inspired her to support local politicians and causes, solidifying her legacy as a community leader.

Traveling was another passion for Judy and Paul. They explored Central and South America, the Caribbean, and embarked on a memorable safari to Africa in their late 80s, where they witnessed elephants in their natural habitat. These adventures filled their lives with magical stories and cherished memories.

Judy is survived by her three children: Randall Parsons (Alison), Stacey Ely (Skip), and Pepe Parsons (Amy D). She proudly leaves behind five grandchildren—Chris Parsons (Natalie), Boris Baggerman (Mallory), Amy Ely, Aly Ely, and Jasper Parsons—and four great-grandchildren: Ethan, Miles, Raegan, and Avery. Judy was preceded in death by her beloved husband Paul, who passed away in May after over 70 years of marriage.

In honor of Judy’s legacy, her family requests that donations be made to a local charity of choice, reflecting her commitment to helping others. A heartfelt thank you is extended to Judy’s close friends, including Pat Poulos and Jean Tarr, as well as her dedicated care team and neighbors, who provided support during her final days.

Family and friends will gather to celebrate Judy’s life during the holiday season, ensuring her spirit and contributions to the community will be remembered fondly.