Community Celebrates 133 Years at Bethabara Methodist Homecoming

This past Sunday, the congregation of Bethabara Methodist Church in Sampson County celebrated its annual homecoming, marking a tradition that has spanned over a century. Attendees, including longtime parishioners and newcomers, gathered to reminisce and enjoy a communal meal that showcased homemade dishes, emphasizing the church’s role as a cornerstone of the community.

Homecoming events, particularly in rural areas, are a time to reconnect with friends and family. For many, including Mac McPhail, who grew up in the area, Bethabara Methodist Church holds a special place in their hearts. “Homecomings provide a great way to get back in touch with your roots,” McPhail stated, reflecting on the significance of the event.

The highlight of the day was undoubtedly the homecoming dinner, where a long row of tables filled with various dishes awaited the attendees after the morning worship service. “Don’t call it lunch,” McPhail emphasized, underscoring the local custom. The tradition of sharing homemade meals, often prepared by family members, has been a staple of these gatherings. McPhail recalled how his father, L.F. McPhail, would rise early to fry chicken, ensuring that the meal was a centerpiece of the celebration.

As the tables filled up, familiar dishes such as chicken pastry and turnips were carefully placed, with many eager to secure their favorite items. “I always made sure to get a big piece of whatever cake Aunt Lettie made,” McPhail reminisced, sharing a moment that encapsulated the warmth and community spirit of the event.

While the day brought joy and nostalgia, it also served as a poignant reminder of those who were absent. Many childhood friends have moved away, and several of the adults who played significant roles in McPhail’s early life have passed on. He reflected on the contributions of his family, particularly his mother, who was actively involved in the church, serving as treasurer for many years before her death.

“My father supported the church throughout his life,” McPhail said. “He wanted everyone to get along and for the church to keep going and growing.” His dedication to Bethabara Methodist Church, located just “across the branch,” remains a testament to the importance of community and fellowship.

The challenges faced by smaller rural churches, such as changing demographics and an aging congregation, are prevalent today. Yet, Bethabara Methodist Church has persevered for 133 years, a testament to its resilience and commitment to its mission. McPhail expressed hope that, with continued support, the church will thrive in the years to come.

Reflecting on the impact of his upbringing, McPhail acknowledged how instrumental Bethabara was in shaping his faith and values. “Heading home for homecoming is special because it connects me to my past and the foundation of my life,” he noted.

Mac McPhail, who now resides in Clinton, continues to share his experiences through writing. His book, “Wandering Thoughts from a Wondering Mind,” a compilation of his favorite columns, is available for purchase online or by contacting him directly.

This year’s homecoming at Bethabara Methodist Church not only celebrated its rich history but also reinforced the bonds that continue to unite its community, ensuring that the spirit of togetherness endures for generations to come.