Remembering Bill Whiting: A Life of Love and Adventure

William (Bill) Whiting, a beloved husband, friend, and mentor, passed away on October 5, 2025, at the age of 77 due to complications related to Alzheimer’s disease. Bill’s family, including his wife Kate, sister Maggie, and niece Stacie, remember him fondly as a man who brought joy to those around him.

Born in Pennsylvania on August 9, 1948, Bill relocated to California many years ago, eventually settling in Santa Cruz around 1993. Following his Alzheimer’s diagnosis in 2019, he managed to stay at home for approximately four years, supported by his dedicated caregiver, Lupe. Her assistance allowed him to maintain a semblance of normalcy during his illness, enabling him to remain in familiar surroundings longer than many might have anticipated.

Honoring a Life of Service and Friendship

After experiencing a series of falls, Bill moved to Westwind Memory Care in Santa Cruz, where his family expressed profound gratitude for the compassionate care he received. The staff at Westwind provided Bill with kindness and professionalism, making his transition as comfortable as possible.

Prior to retiring, Bill worked as a Rehabilitation Counselor, dedicating his career to assisting individuals with disabilities. His impact in this field was significant, as he offered counseling and vocational services to help others find their paths. Bill shared many cherished moments with his wife, Kate, on their expansive property in Bonny Doon, California, where they enjoyed life with their dogs and the beauty of nature.

Bill had a passion for sailing, often embarking on adventures in the Caribbean with close friends, including his long-time companion and fraternity brother from Penn State, Jim Diebold. These excursions remained some of his most treasured memories, filled with camaraderie and exploration.

A Community of Support

Bill’s family acknowledges the unwavering support from Kate’s relatives during his illness. Friends such as Andy Pereira, Gene Stymiest, Dan Strom, and Dave Witteveen frequently visited him at Westwind, creating lasting memories. One particularly touching moment was captured in a video where Dan played “Happy Birthday” on the harmonica for Bill, showcasing the deep bonds of friendship that surrounded him.

The community rallied around Kate, offering assistance and companionship throughout the six-year progression of Bill’s dementia. Notable supporters included Barb Stymiest, Richard Huffman, An Brunelle, and Linda Stevenson, who provided invaluable emotional support during this challenging time.

Bill Whiting is remembered as a devoted family member and a steadfast friend, leaving behind a legacy of love and adventure. His life touched many, and he will be deeply missed by all who knew him. The impact he had on those around him serves as a testament to his character and the relationships he cultivated throughout his life.