Tensions Rise as Belichick’s Daughter-in-Law Critiques His Girlfriend

Disputes within the family of famed football coach Bill Belichick have surfaced, igniting a public controversy involving his girlfriend, Jordon Hudson, and his daughter-in-law, Jen Schmitt. The clash reportedly occurred at Belichick’s office at Kenan Memorial Stadium in Chapel Hill, North Carolina, where Schmitt expressed her frustrations about Hudson’s influence over Belichick.

During an intense conversation, Jen Schmitt accused Hudson of attempting to manipulate Belichick, claiming that “all Jordon does is control s–t.” She went further to label Hudson as “bats–t crazy,” highlighting the emotional turmoil surrounding the situation. The heated exchange was marked by Schmitt’s insistence that she did not care about potential repercussions for her husband, Steve Schmitt, or whether Belichick would choose to distance himself from her.

Schmitt’s ultimatum to Belichick, stating, “You choose your family or you choose Hudson,” underscored the severity of the rift. She also took aim at Hudson’s fashion choices, suggesting she should “eat a burger” instead of wearing snakeskin prints to games. The public scrutiny surrounding their relationship has drawn attention, particularly since the couple has made headlines for their notable 48-year age difference.

The relationship between Belichick and Hudson became public knowledge in December 2024, following their meeting on a flight to Palm Beach in 2021. In August, they attempted to trademark a phrase that referenced this age gap, further fueling media interest.

Tensions have also spilled over into the academic realm, with criticism directed at Belichick’s hiring by the University of North Carolina. Christopher McLaughlin, a professor of Public Law and Government, raised concerns in an email to Athletics Director Bubba Cunningham, questioning why Hudson was becoming a prominent figure associated with the university. McLaughlin argued that while personal matters should remain private, Hudson’s role as Belichick’s girlfriend has blurred those lines, prompting university involvement.

As these events unfold, the impact on Belichick’s coaching career and family dynamics remains to be seen. The situation highlights the intersection of personal relationships and professional responsibilities, especially within the high-stakes environment of collegiate athletics.